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Tuesday, 18 March 2014

3 Secrets Of The Wealthy That You Can Use

By Andrew Block


Are you secretly struggling against yourself and your goal of becoming wealthy? Sometimes our moral compass and our thoughts about money and wealth can stand in our way of creating real wealth. How can you silence these thoughts and feelings so you can find the true wealth that you desire?

Your dreams of being wealthy might be strong but if you have other thoughts about money that conflict with these dreams, your success is going to be limited. You might not believe that you have negative thoughts concerning wealth but often these ideas are so ingrained in our being that we don't realize that they have power over us. Thoughts that money is bad or that wanting to be wealthy will make you evil can thwart even the most intense desire to find riches in our life. Getting to the root of the problem and removing these thoughts is an important step in becoming wealthy.

The first area or misconception that you should think about is your worthiness to be truly wealthy. All of us have a small inferiority complex. In some of us, it's larger than in others or more predominant. We don't believe that we will ever be rich because we're not intelligent enough or we're not deserving of having those things that we desire. We might still want wealth and financial security but deep down inside we are filled with doubt and we keep our dreams to ourselves.

Changing how you feel about yourself and your ability to generate great wealth is the first step in your success. Great people from all walks of life and every degree of intelligence become wealthy. It's not just extremely intelligent people or lucky people or even those that come from wealthy families that become rich in this world. It is true that everyone that becomes wealthy believed in their ability to become rich. On the other hand, those that are poor remain poor because they believe that this is their lot in life. Believe that you deserve to be wealthy in your heart and you stand a much better chance of achieving that goal.

Secondly, you might feel that all rich people are greedy or stingy with their money. You might have had bad experiences in your life with people who are considered rich and you don't want to be like them. There are also many people in the world that hate rich people and you don't want to be hated. You'd rather be poor and happy than rich and miserable.

Keep in mind that many of the stereotypes and bad things that are said about wealthy people are caused by jealousy. Most wealthy people have high morals and they feel a great responsibility to do good deeds with the wealth that has been bestowed upon them. You, yourself, could provide the support and help that your family and friends need while securing your financial future. You could give to different charities and provide aid to different causes that are important to you and your family. There is more good to be gained from becoming rich than you can imagine.

Finally, there is probably a small part of you that feels guilty for wanting more money. Maybe you feel that you should be grateful for what you have and that your desire for wealth is simply greed. Most of us have this feeling to some degree. We have been taught that we should want other things in life such as closer relationships with the ones we love or a closer relationship with God but if we desire more money then we are greedy. You might even feel bad for dreaming about what it would be like to be rich and not have to worry about money.

In order for you to stop feeling guilty about your desire to be rich or for wanting more money in your life, try to think of money a little bit differently. Money, after all, is just a number in your bank account or numerous small pieces of paper. When you think of money as something that doesn't really hold any value then it becomes easier to think about collecting a lot of it. Think of it like you would small stones that you see as you're walking through life or imagine that money is as easy to collect as leaves on the ground on a fall day. That number in your bank account is simply a number. It is a measuring stick that we use to determine how many people we have helped in this world. In the end, it's just a number of how many small pieces of paper we have collected.

Limiting beliefs, fears and worries over money can prevent us from living life to its fullest potential. Our fear of what others will think of us, what we would think of ourselves and feeling that we simply don't deserve to be wealthy can hold us where we are in life indefinitely. In order for you to move forward and be comfortable in creating wealth, you should work on your attitude towards money. After all, it's almost impossible to bring something into our life that we fear or don't want. Money and wealth will only come into your life once you feel comfortable with it and once you begin treating wealth like a dear friend.




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